Iâ€™m 49, divorced plus in brand new relationship (8 months) Progressing nicely and heâ€™s lovely but I experience extreme relationship anxiety that will be really getting even even worse longer Iâ€™m seeing him. Terrified from it not working down, suffer with low self confidence and a part that is big of seems it might be easier simply to end things now to stop myself getting harmed. Area of the presssing problem is we reside over one hour or so aside so weekends should be prepared and spontaneous social gatherings maybe maybe not feasible. As soon as we are together we now have a excellent time but he discovers it impractical to rest in identical sleep as me (he claims he gets restless feet) so we find yourself resting apart and I also miss out the closeness and canâ€™t sleep for stressing. By the time weâ€™ve invested two nights together Iâ€™m utterly exhausted and invested and feel really down between visits. We’ve talked about residing together however in a â€œcouple of yearsâ€ and we truthfully donâ€™t discover how Iâ€™ll make it through the interim duration. We both have demanding jobs and older children at home so lots to focus around. We canâ€™t help experiencing that i will be feeling less anxious at this point nevertheless the stress is all consuming and Iâ€™m miserable for a lot of the right time Iâ€™m maybe maybe maybe not with him.