I do believe personal relationships to your problem is caused to some degree by the very own sensitiveness. Your Venus/Pluto square enables you to require intensity in relationship, making you think about it more powerful than you probably realise. Other individuals may well not continually be quite prepared because of this; and also this makes you feel refused.
There is the Sun squaring Saturn, which suggests low self esteem. You’ll seem assertive, and have a tendency to lash away as a way of defence; but this simply pushes individuals away – causing precisely the response that is opposite the main one you actually need.